not a question.....

[teri1969]

today is cd25 and i am getting kinda depressed, knowing probably i will be starting a new cycle again....mc june 4 and been trying since...i am almost thinking about not trying it causes alot of pain every month...just may go with the flow...i guess i just need to know of some success stories out there!

[teri1969]

thanks guys for all your thoughts and stories....my only worry is i will be 41 in september.....im not gettin any younger.

[MissmyAngel]

I fell pregnant in April of last year, then found out at 12 weeks that the baby had not grown past 8 weeks and I needed a d&c. I waited a cycle and then we started trying again, some months harder than others because of the emotional stress I waas going through. I finally got another positive this past February and I'm now 31 weeks along. Sometimes it takes some time, other times people can fall pregnant again right away. It just depends on your body when it decides the time is right.
Unfortunately it is very stressful, and its hard not to, but its the worst thing you can do. Your body wants to make sure the environment is perfect for the baby, so the more you stress, the less likely you will be to become pregnant. Thats why a lot of people will say when they "gave up" was when they became pregnant.

[need_answers_from_someone]

I understand the rollercoaster of emotions that you are going though each cycle.  I was the same way.  My husband and I tried about 8-9 months for a baby the first time.  We fell pregnant in September of 2009.  When we went to our 17 week doc. appt. we found out the baby had died.  Later we found out she had trisomy 13.  It was devastating.  We waited one normal cycle then started trying again.  I figured it would take just as long to conceive again.  I decided to use the OPK's to pinpoint my ovulation time and 4 months after our miscarriage we fell pregnant again.  If that isnt a success story I dont know what is.  We are due in December with our first son.  Try to stay positive and enjoy the intimate time with your husband because once you fall pregnant again you won't want to.  I wish you all the luck and I am sending you SSBD.

[Uptowngril]

Hi

I am so sorry for your loss. Don't get all in the dumps and depressed, its not helping at all. There's allot of ladies on this site including me that gone through a loss. Little background bout me. Last year I got married, we started to ttc right away. We fell pregnant in December, but I lost the baby (4-5week along) the 1st of January. I was devastated, the doc told us to wait a month or 2, well, we didn't we heard about lots of people that got pregnant after a loss without waiting for their first period. So...since January we ttc, I took a test on Sunday that's past and I got my bfp. 8 cycle later and it happened. there's lots of woman on this site that are trying to conceive, some of them have been trying for years. Don't feel alone. Just have faith. God has a plan with each and everyone of us! I told my dh last night, we went through all the stress not conceiving, now that we actually conceived, the stress gets even more. We stress that this little bean is gonna stick.

SSBD!