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741741 tn?1294284010

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Well I started to spot last night. I am sure its AF. Im in more pain then usual though.
As much as I am disappointed I am happy. At least I am not worrying that there is something really wrong with me.
The DH and I were going to quit trying after this month but I was looking at the dates and because AF showed late, if I O late then he will be home in time! I ordered some opks and hpts from the net, I have never used the opks before so if anyone has any advice for me, that would be greatly appreciated!
Well maybe this time, maybe the opks will help! I dont know.
Congrats to everyone that got BFP!!!! To everyone that didnt, 'heres to keepin on keepin on!'
Best of luck ladies!!

*Also I would like to thank everyone for all the support, wishes and crossed fingers!
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758493 tn?1271611163
Teddi your dr sounds like a real charmer.... 'most' women lose the baby within the first
4-7 weeks?? Are they for real?? What a confidence booster! How about the percentage of women that don't!? I am pleased you are changing doctors, you need someone kind. I am pleased for you that your level has returned to 2, I know its not the way you wanted it to go but now you have accepted what ha happened you can move forward and draw a line under this horrible experience knowing that things are back to normal.

Good luck with the OPK's... I am a massive fan and think they take loads of stress and guess work out of what is going on with your cycle. Sending you a big hug and lots of baby dust :)
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741741 tn?1294284010
Thanks ladies! I talked with the Dr. that had taken my blood work and she said that my level was at 30....
I thought that meant I was preg....?
Well anyway, she said that she didnt feel the need to tell me because I was going back in and she would tell me then if I had not started to bleed. I am a little mad about it, but what can ya do. Her other excuse was that most women lose the baby in the first 4-7 weeks.....
So I had another blood test and my level was at 2.
I wont be going back to her!
Thanks you Princessa745!
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924332 tn?1284573918
Hey Teddi,

I ordered my opk's online and i'm currently using them, pretty easy and i just follow the directions. I also but my hpts's from the same website so i have plenty of those and they have really good reviews. Good luck and SSBD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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663562 tn?1291131883
I'm sorry Teddi :(  I've never used opk's but I've heard they're great! Here's hoping they help :)  I wish you a ton of luck!
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886189 tn?1265941191
Teddi - I'm so sorry AF is on her way.  Hang in there.  Your test pic looked really promising.  

I have never used OPK's myself.  I have a Fertility Monitor that I use on and off.  It has basically confirmed that I ovulate and that's what I find important.  I have gotten to the point that my DH and I BD as much as possible from day 9 to day 20.  Sometimes it's exhausting, but the only way to get that BFP is to BD.  Good luck!
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693804 tn?1304720474
Teddi, i'm sorry :(  I never did OPK's but I sure hope they help you to get your BFP.
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Teddi - sorry to hear that AF is on her way :(  It's so much worse when she plays games on us!

I use OPK's, but never have gotten them off of the net.  But I know that other gals here have.  Good luck with them!!
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