how long after af due should u do a test???

[rachaellou06]

hey everyone

well my af was due on monday this week and has still not come i know is still early and could come and that, its my 1st one since m/c in aug so am also worried that i havent gone back to my old 28day cycle and if i do a test the will be a bfn! am getting pains in loer stomac which keeps making me think i am about to come on and when i go t the loo to check there is nothing. i felt really sick this morning too.

well when do u think is a best time to test as i dont want to do it too early and also i guess i am scared that when i do there will be a BFP staring back at me.
sorry am just rabbiting on a bit but and so worried is silly really xx

[rachaellou06]

yer sorry i read it back and i wrote it compleatly wrong i am really scatty at the mo. well hopefuly we will all get bfp soon :). i thought it would get eaiser but it only gets harder! i just dont understand why our bodys dont get back to normal its not like we havent been through enough. good luck too you too maybe 2010 will be our year :) x

[smr08]

I'm sorry, I thought you didn't have your first af yet. I would also give it a few more days before testing, I know how discouraging it can be to see a BFN. It's hard to say when it will return to normal as everyone is so different, i've heard of women getting right back on track and others  taking a few months for it to regulate. I hope you know soon either way(but a bfp would be nicer). Good luck to you.              Lori

[rachaellou06]

hey,
i had my 1st af on the 9nov and usually have 28day cycle so should if been due on yesterday if my cycles have gone back to normal which hopefully they have, i think i wil leave it till fridy/sat to test just encase as i really dont want to do one toget a bfn. if my afs arnt back to a regular thing how long do you think it will take for them to sort them selfs out?xx

[smr08]

After a m/c it sometimes takes a few months for your cycle to regulate. What your saying is that you haven't had AF since before your m/c? It's hard to say when would be a good time to test since your not gonna be sure when af is going to arrive. If you feel that your having pg symptoms then maybe you should test, but remember your really not sure if your "late" or not so it could go either way.