Hello all my name is Tracy, my DH and I have been ttcing since about 6 months after we got married, we will be celebrating our 8 year anniversary this year. We have had unsuccessfull attempts of IUI with clomid. In the summer of 2008 we conceived. It was funny though because I knew I was preg. but all of the HPT's kept coming back negative, then in the middle of the night I felt a pop and began to bleed, the next day I went into the hospital because I could not handle the pain anymore. The doc did a BHCG, when the results came back she walked into the room with a smile and said, "I have good news and bad news, the good news, we now know you can conceive the bad news you have mc the pregnanacy" I was stunned, I did not know weather to be happy tha I had a confirmed pregnancy or to be devastated becasue it did not last. I eventually became devistated. Well we are now back at it. The cost of treatments in Ontario are in sane, I was lucky enough to have a physician when I got pregnant (we were living in BC for about 4 years) who gave me the IUI for free. Now we are back here and we aree going to try to do this again, this time with temps and an OPK. The other difference this time is for the first two years we were trying things were good, for the next 5.5 years my dh spent most of his time high, now he has been clean and sober for almost two months and he actually came to me, for the first time he activly wants to know anything he can do.
I have been through all of the dissabpointment before and am not looking forward to the emotional rollercoaster this puts me on, but if it works out then in the end it will all be worth it. I do not think I will do the Clomid again however I am awaiting a new appointment\referral with a local OBGYN who from what my friends say is amazing. One thing I was told out west after the Misscarriage was that the OBGYN could see the perfect string of pearls in one of my ovaries, he said indicitive of PCOS, however that was it. He never explored it further. I am hoping this one will, I am 35 and am starting to feel like time is running out.
I just know I can not do this alone and as much as DH is willing to be loving and supportive and do whatever it takes I need to be around women who get it.
That is the end of my rant
Cheers and baby dust to all Tracy