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I had sex with the same woman using a condom 4 times in two days. We never had sex again. The condoms were new and a good brand (mine) and didn't break and there was no penetration at all w/o one. I did leave the condoms, knotted, in a trash can because she told me they wouldn't flush. This was a casual encounter, which is why I took precautions and made sure my boys got nowhere near where they could causer trouble so I was very surprised when she called me amdvtold me she was carrying my child. She was excited and happy and expected me to be too. I said I found it hard to believe
it was mine and suggested she should terminate or give the child up for adoption but she insisted it was mine and said she wanted to keep it. I want to know, even though I could never prove it, whether she could have used the contents of any or all of the condoms to impregnate herself.
it was mine and suggested she should terminate or give the child up for adoption but she insisted it was mine and said she wanted to keep it. I want to know, even though I could never prove it, whether she could have used the contents of any or all of the condoms to impregnate herself.
i think that the test would be a good idea. basically as soon as the child is born you will have to pay for it if it is your and there is nothing u can do about that. you dont want to pay for a child that isnt yours or your responsibility!!
it definately isnt a good thing that you feel that way but i can see how you feel that way and it is wrong that you basically will be a father against your will when you did the right thing and had protected sex to avoid it.
it really isnt fair that you have to go through this! i really feel for you. i am tryin to get pregnant and that is mine and my husbands decision and i think it should be a joint decision not forced onto someone!!
yes it is a very viable way to get pregnant. i actually know a couple, who are lesbians, who have a child and one on the way from using this method. a friend of theirs comes over and "deposits" his sperm into a cup and then the female injects it into herself. so it definately works. there are even websites that tell you in detail how to do it!!
it definately is a cautionary tale. you think you do the right thing and use protection on a casual fling and leave the condoms behind and something like this happens. definately the last thing you would think of when your having a casual thing!!!
it definately isnt a good thing that you feel that way but i can see how you feel that way and it is wrong that you basically will be a father against your will when you did the right thing and had protected sex to avoid it.
it really isnt fair that you have to go through this! i really feel for you. i am tryin to get pregnant and that is mine and my husbands decision and i think it should be a joint decision not forced onto someone!!
yes it is a very viable way to get pregnant. i actually know a couple, who are lesbians, who have a child and one on the way from using this method. a friend of theirs comes over and "deposits" his sperm into a cup and then the female injects it into herself. so it definately works. there are even websites that tell you in detail how to do it!!
it definately is a cautionary tale. you think you do the right thing and use protection on a casual fling and leave the condoms behind and something like this happens. definately the last thing you would think of when your having a casual thing!!!
Paternal DNA test is $500.00. possible child us mine despite my best efforts to prevent this from happening. She wants a child from my gene pool and I get to support it for eighteen years, possibly, even though I took steps tp prevent this happening. All a DNA test would do is hasten the time I would have to start paying child support on a child I did not want and thought I had made sure I would never had. I feel like an unwilling sperm donor who was robbed of his right to choose. Who would ever believe this? We are not kids and I am in a committed relationship of close to a year with someone else. I don't even live in the same state. People say the child looks like me, but they always swear they look like the supposed "baby daddy" on all those talk shows and as often as not, they aren't, despite all the careful portraits trying to convince everyone they are. Ohwell, this is not medical related unless you count extreme stress and rage as health related. Are you positive this is a viable method of conception? I may be screwed, to coin a phrase. What a cautionary tale!
hmmm.... to be honest... yes she could.... all she would need to do is get a syringe and basically inject the sperm into her vagina and impregnate herself. alot of people actually get pregnant this way cause the sperm stays where its needed for longer...
she could also be pregnant from someone else so i would recomend telling her you want a paternaty/dna test to see if it is actually yours!!!
so your 110% sure none of your sperm was anywhere near her? it sounds like your pretty sure, especially if you tied the ends of the condoms...
she could also be pregnant from someone else so i would recomend telling her you want a paternaty/dna test to see if it is actually yours!!!
so your 110% sure none of your sperm was anywhere near her? it sounds like your pretty sure, especially if you tied the ends of the condoms...
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