Yes, that is your right. Second, get into dialectal behavior therapy. You will still have bpd, but will have more control over your thoughts actions and emotions. I went from almost daily episodes I call them, to less then once a month. saved my life! I'm not on amy depression meds either, cuz I'm actually happy!
Medication that works for you can be instrumental in treating your symptoms. It can greatly increase the benefits you receive from DBT and other therapies. If you don't like the meds you are on you can ask about different ones, as there is no med specifically for BPD.