I am doing some research for a family member, male, 49 years old, attorney who has had some hearing loss and was told by a neursurgeon that he may have a tumor in his temporal lobe presumably on the right side. He is left handed and they told him that the area that controls writing and speech may be affected. The tumor is about 3/4" by 2 cm of unknown depth. He was told that he should have a biopsy but that there is a 1 in 100 chance that the biopsy could be fatal. He wants to wait and avoid the biopsy because he fears that he will either die or be seriously impaired verbally (thus ending his career) if he undergoes a biopsy with odds like that.
What I would like to know is, should he wait to see if it grows and if so, could he wait a week, two weeks, a month? Or should he just get the biopsy right away. Should he seek a second opinion? He went to a University hospital for this diagnosis but it is the first one he has been given. Is that size tumor large for that part of the brain?
Any direction would be welcomed