what questions to ask?

[marley2677]

my mom had a needle biopsy and just found out she has invasive ductile carcinoma.  she's going for an MRI and to meet with a doctor in 2 days... what are some questions she should be sure to ask?  i'm extremely worried for her since her mother, grandmother, and 3 aunts have all died of breast cancer.  i'd welcome any advice.

[japdip]

Just a little tip ..... if your mother is positive for the breast cancer gene then all of you girls will be ......  

[marley2677]

I'm 32 and Mom took me with her for my first mammogram and ultrasound last week... that's when they found her lump.  I have two sisters, 30 and 38, the younger hasn't gone yet and the older only had a mammogram (no ultrasound) 10 years ago.  They're both going to make appointments after the new year.  We need to get more info on the genetic testing and possibly all have that done as well.

[japdip]

It's difficult to say what someone should ask ....... whatever concerns her is what she should ask about. It's a good idea to write down any questions before a person sees the Dr. so nothing is forgotten. I'm guessing that you will be going with her which is also a good idea; an extra pair of ears can be very valuable as we often miss something that is said. I think she will have more questions after she sees the Surgeon and is advised as to the next step in the process. I would also advise you to be extra vigilant about your own breast health and although you don't mention any ages you should be having a screening mammogram or Ultrasound much earlier than is usually recommended. This would also apply to your sisters if you have any. Genetics may well be involved here with the history you mentioned.     Regards .....