Hi Kathy, I'm afraid I don't have any idea what to do. I'm sure it's his tumor though, like you said. Due to the location, it might be tickling his nasal cavity. Some of it Might be from allergies if Fluffy's prone to them and while pills seem to be out of the question at this point, I wonder if some sort of injection would help him? A full minute is a long time to sneeze especially with the force you describe. Can you ask a quick question of your vet when you go get the records? Why are you getting the records? You may have said in your other thread, but my memory is terrible, please forgive me.
I can imagine how exhausted you are, Kathy, not only from lack of sleep, but watching our beloved pet suffer is...traumatizing to say the least. I am picturing what your life must be like and my heart hearts for you.
Fluffy has started having awful sneezing fits. At first it was mostly after he had been eating or drinking, and would only be a few smallish sneezes. Last night he sneezed several times after dinner stronger sneezes.
Several times during the night and wee hours of this morning his sneezing woke me up. Once he was meowing, I woke up, and he started sneezing.
They were truly awful; his whole head jolted back and rapidly side to side, like he was shaking something off but it was from the force of the sneeze. He would do it several times, then pause with his mouth open, doing the kind of ah-ah like humans do before a big ahchoo!, and then it would start again, maybe for a full minute of sneezing. He would pause, then start again. He would wipe his nose with his paw but he would still sneeze some more.
The sneezes were so powerful that I was afraid he would hurt himself. I tried to comfort him, but he would pull away. When I finally got him settled down around 5 am, I was lying there trying to go back to sleep, and I felt him raise his head to look at me. I looked him in the eye until he sunk back down onto his Hello Kitty blanket with a kind of sighing exhalation, and slept soundly until a maintainance worker was hammering out in the hall around 7:30 am.
I'm sleep deprived and I'll bet Fluffy has a headache at the very least. I have a whole list of things to get accomplished, including picking up Fluffy's records and his Methimazole prescription refill. I guess some of the list will wait for tomorrow.
Any ideas on what to do for a sneezing cat? It's most likely from his tumor in one way or another.
rockinhippy (love the screen name!),
Thank you so much for your compassion and sharing. I also have MS. I cried reading about your Polly. I'm glad you adopted Roxi. You do so understand how I feel, and have made me feel better and a little less guilty for wishing for relief for both Fluffy and myself. I love him so deeply, as I did his mom before him.
His mom was hit by a car when he was two, and I still have a picture of her on the bookcase next to my couch. That was so sudden; we both kept thinking Ginger would show up; he'd meow for her under dressers, in closets, looking for her.
I know I'll still talk to him when he's gone, say "mommy's home, Fluffy" when I come in, or just expect him to come out of the closet with his unique three-legged walk.
This watching him slowly fade away is torture; getting on the floor, trying to coax him to eat. Last night I ate some rice cakes in bed after midnight just to get him to eat something. He came out of the closet when I got home from yoga this morning and he was moving really slow. He's been dragging more litter out of the litter box with him; I just vacuum it up, or pick it up with the dust-pan.
He has new lumps on his tail; I wonder if they're squamous cell carcinoma, too, or just some benign lump like he's had in the past.
I went to the social gathering after yoga today, one of the organizers asked about Fluffy in private, and one of the women kept me engaged in conversation in the group. She also ran into me shopping (the yoga class is upstairs in a health food store), and told me to go ahead and get some chocolate covered ginger, it would be good for me. I laughed, bought a few pieces, and enjoyed them totally.
Opus, Apple, Linda,
I need to remember to socialize and enjoy life; my grief and my illness are just parts of my life, not the whole. Thank you all for being here for me, caing and being so supportive. You are all so wonderful to share your kindness while dealing with your own lives; your ups and down, wonders and sadness, illness and joy.
I'll come visit more often. You all are good for me, and I like sharing with the rest of the forum, trying to help answer questions or give support.
Hugs,
Kathy
First, I would like to say what a beautiful, compassionate and helpful post for anyone finding themselves going through this sad but inevitalbe grief-filled process. What she said was very comforting and I, like Opus, appreciate her sharing her personal story of Polly and Roxi. I hadn't seen anything lately from you Fluffysmom and I had feared the worst. I've gone through this also with my 16 1/2 yr old Big Tom, the pain does ease over time. it's been about 12 yrs now but I will always remember him with so many wonderful memories. Please take care of yourself through all this and know that all of us here on the cat forum are here for you.
You both are in my prayers, dear :-(
Oh what can I add to the beautiful post from rockinghippy...she covered all the same feelings I went through as well.
I'm sure all the worry over fluffy is wearing you down the expected loss of a loved one is always in you're mind its hard not to be.
She is going slowly, giving you time to come to the acceptance of her leaving, in some ways thats kinder than a sudden passing...but its also hard to watch them slowly deteriorating before our eyes, we want so badly to keep them as long as we can.
the baby food is an 'excellent' idea, give her what ever she enjoys. try to keep you're spirits up K.
we all love you both and are here for you.
Rocking.....that was a lovely story of Polly and Roxi...its hard to learn to love another when the one we've lost was so precious, as you say Roxi needed a home and I think you both needed her too!!
I'm sorry I don't know you, so don't know what your own health problems are, but from my own experience I know nursing a Cat so very ill & at the end of its life, can have a massive effect & cause flare ups of our own health problems, I've seen it with My Mum too, she has MS, & now they have a treatable diagnosis & have seen improvements in their own Cats health, rather than the threatened Feline Lukeamia, my Mums health has picked up massively, but the months leading up to it, she was very ill & constantly tearful,
My own dear old girl had to be put to sleep 2 days before Xmas, so I really do feel for you, & know exactly how you feel.......even though my Polly had reached the grand old age of 20 it was hard to bare........she also lost a lot of weight & was then diagnosed with Hyperthyroid, & did pick up with treatment & put on weight again, then suddenly had a relapse, where she was again losing even more weight, went from her usual huge hefty dog sized to light as a feather in such a short space of time, she was so old the Vet didn't want to put her through the trauma of opening her up to see what else was going on, she wouldn't of survived, but they were pretty sure she too had Cancer.....
in the end she took to vomiting everything she was given, & we knew the time had come to let her go, it was heartbreaking for all of us, more heartbreaking still to see the effect it had on my 7 year old Daughter, & those months in the run up to her passing had me dealing with the worst flare ups of my own health problems than I had since learning what I was dealing with, & how to pace myself, & like you constantly felt on the verge of tears, it was an awful time, & you dread the end.............I'm tearful now just thinking of it
but you know what, when the end finally came it was actually a HUGE relief, because I knew my baby was no longer ill & hurting & we could stop fearing for that end to come don;t get me wrong, I still miss her & always will, but it was her time & now its all over my own health improved a lot too.
For me the idea of going out & getting a new Cat so soon was too hard to bare, I felt way to disloyal, but my Daughter was heartbroken, & I had to do something for her sake, especially so close to Xmas, so we borrowed our friends 2 Kittens over Xmas itself, which helped put a smile back on her face, & they were so much fun it helped all of us......
as soon as Xmas was over we went to a Cat sanctuary & adopted a new 1 yr old rescue Cat, after all she had been abandoned & needed a home, so that helped me feel less disloyal to Polly, & our new Cat Roxi seemed to know where she was needed, & made our Daughters day by claiming the space next to her, on her high sleeper bed as her own, something our grand old lady could never do due to her age....Roxi still takes our Daughter to bed every night, & has made herself a big part of the family already.........
though we will never forget Polly, our Daughter has her little rememberance ritual of writing her name & hearts in the steam on a certain window near where she liked to sit, so Roxi has not replaced her, she never will, but she given us all something else to think about, a little bit of joy to replace the sadness.
so like you say, how you feel is perfectly normal, & I don't doubt its having a bad effect on your health, Cancer really does suck, its the cruelest of things, but your Boy is obviously very much loved, comfort yourself with that, & when the time comes to let him go, cry as you need to but don't be surprised nor guilty at the relief you will feel, it is after all his time, & what is best for him.
my heart goes out to you ((hug))