Hi Linda...There IS an appetite stimulant your vet can rx. Cyproheptadine...which is an antihistimine. Jade was rx'd this. It worked, but unfortunately a common side effect is kitty is sleepy and lethargic (as antihistamines tend to do). Jade would begin to eat with gusto, but couldn't finish as she would fall asleep.
Is Aramis eliminating normally?
You might also talk to your vet about an anti-nausea med also.
I know Aramis' appetite has been poor for a while. I am thinking by now you may be dealing with Hepatic Lipidosis. A blood test will tell if that is true or not.
My heart breaks for you, Linda. Sending you love and hugs. xo
Thanks, Jade....I'll keep this in mind. His labs all look so good in every area. He sleeps so much already. He is still somewhat constipated and I usually give him a dose of laculose every other night. The miralax didn't seem to work as well.