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740516 tn?1360942486

Lolo is driving me crazy!!! Any ideas about?

As some of you already knows, after her bladder surgery and e - collar time and stress  she never returned to her normal routine, being outside by itself during the day.
She nows spend all the time she's alone inside the house.
But this week she started to refuse spend her nights in the place she used to be, together with her kids and near my bedroom.
Lolo dont ask things - SHE DOES! And she is STRONG, it means I cant sleep with her trying to leave the place!
IF I give up and let her go, in about one hour she is trying to come back .If I open the door back , she doesnt come - she wants ME yo go there with her.
I had been hugging, petting . kissing and SHOUTING LOUD at her.I already tried everyway to solve this, but unsucessfuly
She is not lovely with kids as well - but she doesnt seen to be sick
Started wondering about ageing  mental problems... But shes only 6 yo yet
What do you think about?
Suggestions are welcome
Ps Vet just said " try florals" - I dont think it will work...
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Lo is accepting the place better.But keeps being agressive with Joy and Lucky...
Wonder if she's fine...
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2 days better - and a setback yesterday :-(
No more info about poo.
Pitying Joy and Lucky,Lolo stressed treat then bad...
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Yep, vet florals.We have some brands for pets here, all Alcohol free.
A friend of mine ( chemisty and ceptical) tried one of those with good results ( Dog and another situation)
I personally tried another brand for excessive licking with Lucky .I had gotten the product free from a friend and  results were partially good - but I increased the time I spent with her as well.Lack of fur is still quite bad.no lesions - she never did those,anyway.
About Loreena, she is calmly sleeping at the living room -not very active- at the moment I decide take her to the "sleeping place" or convince her of going by itself ( she used to do it)
Sometimes I take her together with the box or bed she's sleeping on, for not to disturb her.
Sometimes she spends some time there calm - til decide she wants to leave...
Other cat around would bother the WHOLE FAMILY - as well as 'Spirits" , I guess... But I never see Lucky and Joy so peaceful- I 've been playing  more with those cause I pity Lolo 's lack of caring for and I cannot sleep anyway :-)
Btw - I never heard about Florals being put inside the ear or in the paws.The ones we have here are supposed to be put in the water or drops in her mouth.
There is also Feliway spray - quite damn expensive to try on.

pS .This last night we sleep better.Just one time outside the bed conforting a mad spoiled cat.Wake up happy - and noticed lolo doing a not very good poo :-(
Not sure if this is related to - it can be eating insects the days she slept in the living room, antiworms taken day 15,fighting stress - who knows??
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oh my.....I don't know what to think, if I didn't know better she's almost acting like a lady 'in heat' but I know this isnt her problem.
she wants to be outside but not alone...she wants you with her. Did the Vet mean Homeopathic Florals?  meaning Flower Essence? some people have very  good success with one in particular, BACHS Rescue Remedy. if this one is available where you are? It will help calm a kitty, just a drop or two inside the ear flap or on the paw. I've used it whenever we have a Vet trip and it appears to help...can't swear by it tho but its worth a try on poor Lolo. just make sure you buy the ALCOHOL FREE one thats meant for pets...the people one has alcohol as a preservative and you sure don't want to give this one to a cat.
otherwise honey, I don't knw how to help.....sorry. is she hungry at night, would an extra helping at bedtime help settle her???
No at 6 years old its sure not a mental thing....perhaps there is some other cats straying around your place at night that are bothering her?? try the Rescue Remedy and see if that helps to calm her....good luck
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