just bumping this post up again because I could really use some advice.
So, your Siamese is the one with this behavioral problem, right? Have you talked to the vet about that?
Stress can cause this, and your cat is very stressed. You can try various things in the house. You can try buying Feliway, which reduces stress in cats and thus urinating as well. And here are some good tips that may help you control the situation. I got this from peteducation. Here goes:
Possible Solutions to Inappropriate Elimination
Have your cat checked by your veterinarian for a possible medical condition, and start treatment for the condition if one exists. If the cat is extremely stressed, talk to your veterinarian about some medications which may help.
If you have multiple cats and do not know which one is the culprit, your veterinarian can give you some fluorescent dye to feed one of the cats. The urine from that cat will fluoresce when exposed to a black light.
Place numerous litter boxes around the house. You do not have to use anything fancy: dishpans, large plastic containers, or other items may work just as well. Try a larger litter box, such as a sweater storage box; some behaviorists feel litter boxes are often too small.
Use different substrates including newspaper, clumpable and nonclumpable litter, sand, sawdust (not cedar), carpet remnants, and no litter at all. Use unscented litter, since many cats do not like the scented kind. If you find the substrate that your cat prefers is not the one you do, e.g., carpet remnants, try slowly converting the cat back to litter. Place a small amount of litter on the carpet remnants the first week, and if all goes well, use more litter each week until you can finally remove the carpet remnants from the box.
Try different depths of litter. Many people put too much litter in the box. Some cats like only a small amount.
Clean any soiled areas with an enzyme cleaner designed for use on pet urine and stool. Regular detergents and other cleaners will not break down the urine or feces, and if the cat smells any urine or feces on a carpet or floor, the cat may continue to use that spot to eliminate. In some cases, the carpet or carpet padding may need to be replaced.
Clean the litter boxes at least once daily. Wash the litter box weekly. Do not clean the box with a strong smelling disinfectant, but rinse the box well after washing it.
Feed the cat where she is inappropriately eliminating. Many cats will not urinate or defecate in the area in which they are fed.
Use upside down carpet runners (the ones with the spikes on the bottom), heavy plastic, aluminum foil, double-sided tape, motion detectors, pet repellents, or scat mats to limit her access to the area where she inappropriately eliminates.
Try Feliway, as described above. Be sure to follow the manufacturer's recommendations.
Take your cat to the litter box frequently, and if she uses it, praise her, or even give her a treat.
If you catch your cat in the act of urinating or defecating outside of the box (or even using the digging motion), use a remote correction. This generally means doing something that will startle her. Tossing a pop can with a few coins inside of it and taped shut toward the cat (but not at her!) may get her to stop. Foghorns, whistles, and water pistols are other options. It is best if she does not associate you with the correction, but thinks it 'comes out of the blue.'
Do NOT punish the cat. Punishing the cat, including rubbing her nose in the soiled area will not help, and will probably increase the stress on the cat.
In some situations, it may be helpful to confine the cat to a small room with food, water, toys, bed, and litter box. Once she is using the litter box in the smaller area, gradually allow her into larger areas of the house.
Hope this helps. Let me know what you decide to do.
Thank you so much! I will try all of these things. I have been a cleaning fool,but I have found other areas he has started using. He is very stressed and I want to see him overcome it. He's such a sweet boy. I will let you know how it goes. :-)
The fact that you have your cats declawed is probably responsible for much of this behavior. By having a cat declawed, you take away his first line of defense, and they often develop bad habits because psychologically they have a hard time dealing with the lack of something that instinct tells them should be there.
Since your kitties do not have their claws, in their minds, they are defenseless against interlopers, and their displeasure manifests itself in different ways. Inappropriate elimination is one of the most common. So is biting. Cats have scent glands in their paws, so when it looks like they are simply sharpening their claws on something, while pulling the old sheaths off the claws might be part of the rationale behind the action, many times they are using their paw glands to mark their territory so that newcomers will know that they were there first. Since your cats are declawed, they can't use this marking behavior, so they resort to the OTHER type of marking behavior that they know, and that is urinating and/or defecating inappropriately around the house to let other cats know that that's THEIR place. Feliway Comfort Zone is worth a try, but sometimes there's just not all that much that can be done to stop the behavior.
This is not to make you feel bad, I'm just stating a fact, but declawing really messes them up psychologically, so you've definitely got your work cut out for you when it comes to getting this situation under control. Declawing is not just a matter of cutting the claws, the procedure involves the amputation of each toe at the first joint. Since the claws are used for everything from defense to isometric exercises to help keep the cat's muscles toned, not having those claws changes their lives immeasurably, usually not for the better, especially in multi-cat households.
Getting back to the Feliway Comfort Zone, it is a pheromone-based spray that is released into the air. It contains kitty "feel good" pheromones, and many rescues and breeders that have tried it to keep peace in their homes have reported fantastic results with it. It will cost ABOUT $35 to get started, and then each refill is about $16. One unit will cover two or three rooms, depending on the size and proximity of the rooms. You can Google "Feliway Comfort Zone" for more information. Good luck!
Thanks for the insite on the FeIiway.
I used to work as a vet tech and I am aware of the proceedure that goes into declawing. I have to differ with the reason behind his unwanted local elimination. The siamese that is doing this behavior was neutered/declawed with my assistance 5 years ago when he was 8 weeks old. So, I would find it safe to say that his life hasn't been "changed" from what he knows it to be other than the introduction of another cat which he dislikes. :-)
His locations seem to be out of fear of leaving the location he is in and just going where he is. He prefers the kitchen most of the time and stays on the counter top, hiding.
Good luck. I hope you can find a way to stop this behavior. I think your baby is stressed by the new addition and showing you his dissatisfaction. My mother's cat, Rusty, lived with my brother when my mother lived with him and he kept bringing cats into the home. He ended up with 7 other cats besides Rusty and he was first. He started peeing on my brother's bed or anything that belonged to my brother. I think it was his unhappiness about the other cats being in the house and he targeted my brother. Cats are smart creatures and so maybe give him a little more attention and do some of the things mentioned above and it will stop. Rusty lives in my house now (my mother lives with hubby and I now) with my 4 other cats and he does not urinate at all anywhere but the litter box now.
I agree with you that declawing does not do all that people say it does. I've had cats my whole life and because we lived in apartments we were required to have them declawed. Never, did their personalities change. Some people say they always have pain there too and again never has any of my cats acted like their front paws hurt. I rub my cats paws as a part of my snuggling time and they love it. Personally, if I didn't have too I would not have them declawed, but sometimes you have too. We found a kitten in August and when we had her spayed we did not declaw her because we were hoping to find her a home and if she went to someone who let her outside we wanted her to have her claws for protection. We haven't been able to find her a home, but she NEVER uses her claws. It's funny but I think when she plays with the other cats who are declawed she realizes that they don't use their claws and so she doesn't. When she plays with me she places both her paws on my face and rubs my face with her claws drawn in - very smart little girl.