Thanks so much. Before my surgery I was known to all my family of keeping everything and eveyone together, and I'm finding I can't do this anymore. It is to hard on the brain. Thanks for lifting up my heart.
Linda :)
Ohh lisa i think u are a worrier like me.i am thinking and worrying every day and also have to learn i am not able anymore to be there for everyone as a person.i do need a lot of rest mentally and physically.but dont be to hard with urself...i am sure u r a lovely person giving everything u can...enjoy ur day!!!
Thank you all for your replies. Today is a better day. Last night I was miserable my head was hurting so bad. I took my pillow and layed it on top of my head and it relieved some of the pressure. Does this work for anyone else? I have also had a lot of family issues that in my heart and brain am trying to conquer and I'm finding I can't fix everyone's problems anymore. It takes to much out on my brain. Does this make sense to anyone. When I think and worry it seem's to flare up my head. I'm taking you up on the hot tub idea. I'm going to enjoy this tonight. Thanks again everyone for your support and your replies. It alway's makes me feel better.
Linda :)
I am like this alot lately. Like im a freakin zombie. I feel as if im just here. Not really aware of whats goin on. But amazingly i push thru because everyone counts on me for everything around here. They will never understand how thid is affecting me. :(
Oh i think we can all relate to it!!!seems u overdid and the cinema chairs are not the.best for us.take it easy it will go away...make a spa day if u can at home...i do water baths for the legs with olive oil and a bit salt...make something that makes u feel good and relaxed.i went to take artificial sun,but a new flashy lipstick...put my favourit music...had a nap and it helps!!!
Could be u r over tired from ur marathon?.....
Take it easy the next few days and see if it goes away, if not call ur Dr.
Sending u mojo too : )