Hello and Welcome!
Burdzmom...you are 100% right!!
We have all had the Dr battle one time or another and you learn really quickly that you have to advocate for yourself. It is really sad and awful being sick like we are and then having to fight for proper care....but the benefits that you will see from you persistence are worth it!
May I ask where you live? From the sounds of it it must be the UK or Canada. I live in Canada and we have the same referral process that you mentioned. When I was going through the dx process I got absolutely nowhere with a NL (neurologist). Luckily, I came in contact with an excellent NS who offered to see me. So I went to my GP and I just said, this NS will see me and I want a referral. It was the best thing I ever did, I got my dx and surgery within 3 months.
So my advice to you is to start researching Chiari specialist RIGHT NOW!! Depending on where you live, there may a Dr on our specialist thread:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Chiari-Malformation/LIST-OF-CHIARI-SPECIALISTS/show/1293483
This is the one for the US...if you are in Canada we have a list too, let me know and I can find it for you.
Once you find a NS, go to your GP and tell them that you have done some research and that the most qualified Dr to treat it is a NS...it is much more their field than a NL. Then give them the name of the Dr you want to see and insist that they refer you. I think it would be medically negligent if they didn't ESPECIALLY since you already have a Chiari dx.
I know how hard it is to really push for yourself but it will be the best thing you can do for yourself!! Remember this forum is here to give you support as you go!
Carolyn