I agree with you that your daughter's behaviors are not typical of night terrors, though it can't be ruled out. A more likely explanation is that she experienced hypnagogic sensations, which are very vivid experiences during the phase of either falling asleep or waking up (if waking up, often the term hypnapompic sensations/hallucinations is employed). Had you not already spoken with your daughter's pediatrician, I would have suggested doing so because such experiences can be symptomatic of, or associated with, certain seizure disorders. But that is not a likely possibility.
Thank you for your comments. I did in fact speak to my pediatrician, although she has not seen my child yet. She seems to think that if it were a seisure disorder I would see nuerological signs during the day as well as night. Is that true?
Kristenbs
I can sympathize with you on this subject. My now 14 year old son had night hallucinations for almost a year when he was just 5. It was exhausting to say the least. Extremely vivid just as you explained he said a family of skeletons lived in our bedrooms. It was amazing how precise and clear he was about everything he saw explaining it all in detail and never changed what he said even though at times I and the therapist(s) involved tried to trick him. It was waaaaay to freaky for even the most incrediable imagination to make up yet alone a little boy. I was scared thinking all kinds of weird things were going on including the unexplained relating to the supernatural. After months of therapy with different doctors and no success I decided it was time to move house. It stopped immediately. The strangest thing is is that after we moved he has no recollection of that experience. Spooky but true. Good luck!!!
I just wanted to add that my son was also fully awake while telling me about the skeletons, it was like a blow by blow as it happened commentary ... very frightening.
WOW; i can totally relate to how you are feeling. My now 11 yr old, at age 4, after a lot of trauma as well, would see and feel angels slapping him on the face calling him stupid. he has hallucinated sparatically ever since then. he does have a seizure disorder, we think the doctors cannot confirm, just suspect and confirm slowed brain waves... my son has been hospitalized many many times, because his hallucinations started telling him to hurt himself and his younger brother and me.
i would DEFENITELY watch for any other behaviors that were out of the norm, i would make it a point to spend time with other 3 yr olds so you can see them side by side. my son had several developmental delays, that were ALWAYS dismissed by doctors, but now age 11 and unable to read, lacks social skills of an 11 yr old, they are NO LONGER dismissed. Good luck to you and please let me know if i can be of any help. i would also recommend getting your child to do some "play therapy", the therapist may be able to uncover the underlying problem. hopefully it is all the trauma, unfortunately they think my son's is schizophremia, EXTREMELY rare in children of that age, so don't worry about that yet...
oh, one more thing, make sure you JOURNAL EVERYTHING that is going on in relation to this and also have your daughter tell your husband or another close family friend what she is seeing; it will save you A LOT of headache down the road.. trust me.
i think that it is completley normal and age appropriate
Thank you so much for all your comments.
Night terrors.
Kids at three or so experience hormone fluxes similar to puberty and menopause.
Always get a second opinion. If a doctor thinks night terrors are a seizure disorder, check with a different doctor. We had a case where a group of doctors pronounced a baby dead after birth when it was just a "blue baby." They had never heard of a "blue baby" and thought the kid was dead.
Doctors are stupid. Nature is not.