Hi...I also have a 4 year old who won't pop in the potty. He never poops in his pants either though, he goes to his dresser and gets out his pull ups and takes off his pants and then poops. He does however pee in the potty and never has accidents (not including nights) in his pants. He turned 4 on Nov. 28 2005.
Well i couldnt post a message on the potty training list, but i need some serious help.
my 4 year old will not poopoo in the potty, i have tryed sitting him on there, telling him he can get candy or a toy after he goes like a big boy.
am i do something wrong here?
he will pee in the potty every now and then but i dont understand why he wont do the other?
any help would be great.
he was behind with everything else he learned to do also.
like crawing, walking, talking, and now potty training.
i feel like this is all my fault, what should i do?
It should absolutely be expected that a child of four comply with parental and teacher directions. That is not to say that a child of four will not resist directions, but that should not deter the adults from managing the behavior and insisting on compliance. Your son has just enetred this program, so you'll have to see how things develop as he adjusts. It's too early to draw conclusions yet. The behavior you describe does not indicate ADHD but rather an oppositional temperament.