Wisebird, when I was 5 or 6 I explored similarly with my friends. I was never sexually molested or verbally/physically sexually abused. It's just curiosity. My daughter and her friend were also caught a year ago over to her friends house. They apparently had come Accross baby videos on YouTube and that sparked their curiosity on the woman's body and how babies are made. Talk to her, make sure she knows she's not in trouble, and then reassure her that she can always come to you to talk about these things. Make sure the other mother/parent doesn't over react either. It was my daughter's best friend and in my situation it was a couple kids from daycare. I'm a perfectly healthy mom of 3 and happy. My kids are always comfortable talking with me because I reassure them that I too was their age. I understand how they feel. I don't overreact. I think you did a wonderful job talking to her. Fivesies to you. Your an amazing mama. :)
You do know that 'playing doctors' is what children who've been molested do? Where would a child get the idea that doctors examine your genitals. At least one of these kids is being preyed on.
The other little girl (your daughters friend) seems to have learned about pregnancy and how the operation works. I do not believe that they were being sexual at all, simply playing doctor and nurse- unaware that it was inappropriate. Its good you established to her that her genitals are private and that no one is allowed to mess with her. Just keep reinforcing the idea that if anyone touches her she must report to you immediately. Keep an eye on her and make sure she isnt teaching other children or trying to do it again. Good luck ! :)
The other little girl (your daughters friend) seems to have learned about pregnancy and how the operation works. I do not believe that they were being sexual at all, simply playing doctor and nurse- unaware that it was inappropriate. Its good you established to her that her genitals are private and that no one is allowed to mess with her. Just keep reinforcing the idea that if anyone touches her she must report to you immediately. Keep an eye on her and make sure she isnt teaching other children or trying to do it again. Good luck ! :)
Sounds on track to me. I definitely think setting boundaries is good such as you did--- no touching or looking at your privates and same goes for her toward others. And make sure they leave the door open when playing and check on them frequently. good luck
Thank you for the reassurance
I think that you handled it perfectly! No need to worry unless it happens more than once (or escalates) in which case ask where she learned it.
Wish you the best of luck!