My 5 year old pulled this other boy's (age 3-1/2) pants down at daycare. Which in itself is no big deal, but when the other boy bent over to pull his pants up, my son poked him in the butt with his finger. My son has never done anything like that before, I've never had trouble with him in that department. He knows not to touch and not to let others touch him. When I found out, I gave my speech about all that again, told him that was gross and I never wanted to hear of such a thing again. I pawned all of this off as kids being kids. The two of them are buddies, so he wasn't trying to hurt the other boy or be mean to him; I really just figured he thought he was being "funny". But the mother of the other boy called CPS and made a complaint about my son. My feeling, and everyone else's that I've talked to said that this was just taking it too far. This woman had to take the whole week off of work because she was so upset by the whole thing. I remember when I was kid, it was normal to play doctor and all in all, be curious. I am not justifying what my 5 year old did, but that's just it...he's 5. #1 is this "normal" behavior of my son and #2 should this woman be so upset? I'm really afraid she's causing more problems with her son by making such a production out of it. Now we have to meet with CPS possibly and have a counselor talk with both the boys, etc. My son has never been touched by anyone, nor has he seen this behavior. It's not the cause of something terrible that has happened to him. He just did it; he feels bad and is embarrassed and I'm quite certain will never do anything remotely close to that again.