my son is 5 years old. He acts very immature at times. He takes toys from his brother and says i was playing with that. Sometimes then will share like a trooper. When he is around other children, he hits if they put something where he doesn't want it. not all the time but enough to make me sad. My husband and i don't spank. We use time out or take away his most tresured toys if need be. He pees in his pants still. He jumps around acting silly when he encounters other children just not acting like a typical kid. He loves a particular toy and acts it out a lot, when he's at home and then at school.
He is very smart, but doesn't seem to express himself as clearly as his brother who is three. He will say, i want crayons for i can draw. things like that. He seems to forget things quickly. He forgets the numbers taught to him.
I feel like a broken record and constantly telling him no all the time. He just seems not to get it, i can't tell you exactly, but just seems to be selective. If i ask him something when he knows i am angry he will make sense. Seems sometimes to have attention disorders. but then other times great. He does puzzles, draws amazingly. Can hit a ball with a bat awesome. runs like a pro. But sometimes just tends to see the cause and effect like a 3 year old.
please help him focus and act like a normal little boy.