Hi Dr.,
Thank you for the very informative and supportive room. I have a 6yr girl in Kindergarten. She can be the most sweetest to the most unruly, and excuse the word, wicked child. I can tell her to do something and it takes 10 times to do it to the point I have gone from asking her nicely, to telling her, to yelling, or it is no,no,no I won't. Time out does not seem to work when it is called for, she will scream,kick at the furniture and come out of the room. I have taken away tv etc, even knowing she won't get it back does not seem to stop her behavior. Tantrums are kicking,screaming,stamping her feet, leave me alone, no,no etc.
She is a very smart little girl as I am told by her teacher. She had trouble early on in school this year, not wanting to listen to her teacher either but that seems to happen only ocassionaly now. She is very needy, I can't seem to give her enough attention! I have a 8yr old boy and 2 yr old boy, I truly try to give each equal time. She plays baseball and gymnastics, so I take her there, read with her, but when these tantrums start after asking her to do something or stop doing something, I hate to feel or say this, I start to dislike her and have to try very hard not to say something to her that I will regret later. She is really starting to get the better of me and I am not sure what else to do. I get different views, she will grow out of it, middle child syndrome(is there such a thing?), time out(which she just has to be kept putting back into into), things taken away such as tv, bike etc.
Any suggestions, counseling? Thank you!