My son does excellent in school and well above grade level. Social relationships are good. His teacher will say he cant take a joke and gets upset easily.He will leave his seat without permission, but she has no disruptive behavior concerns. At HOME is another story. He will not take NO for an answer.Its like he doesnt hear us. He is not suppose to play ball in the house, he will. He is not allowed in our bedroom and he walks in and out as he pleases. He will get into a adult situation, sometimes answer back as it seems he has an excuse for everything. I really believe he sees himself as an adult, not a 7 yr old child. At times he has made other children feel bad about themselves -- if they dont score as high as he does in class or if his 5 yr olf brother does better than him with a game. We have tried reward charts, taking everything he loves away, threats, spanking, yelling , nothing works for more than a little while.
He is not uncontrollable despite the above ,as a family we go out to restuarants, theater, road trips and he enjoys and behaves well. But once something gets in his head - thats it! I hate to say it he is very annoying and I end up screaming and yelling at him all day long.
Outside he plays well with all children. At home we have that constant bikering with his younger brother, both nothing serious.PLEASE HELP!!!