She is too young for therapy to be useful. Over time, with repeated interactions with adults (both men and women) who treat her well, she'll be fine.
Thank you for your reply. My little girl is 2 year old in January. She is happy around women and will let female doctors examine her. Around men she freezes and asks to be picked up and keeps her face hidden by putting her arm over her eyes and keeping tight hold of myself with her other hand, if a male doctor try's to examine her she starts to cry and get herself very anxious and points to the door to be taken away.
It's very upsetting to watch I've tried to talk to her and calm her down or distract her with toys but nothing I try seems to have worked upto now.
H ow old is your daughter now? Her age will determine what can be done by way of therapy. Relative to the contact, your only sure way of proceeding is through the court system. Only with the court's intervention can he have, o be denied, the opportunity to see his daughter. If any contact is permitted, it goes without saying that it should be supervised and in a neutral (i.e., non-family) setting.