We are on Medicaid. Im a single mother with 4 kids,1 who was sexually abused by her step father,1 whos father sexually abused his 1/2 sister and who has been diagnosed with adhd, ptsd, dyslexia, and possible boderline personalit dis, 1 who is 100% disabled with Rett Syndrome,hypotonia, and full sibling to the last three,1 who is 4 full sibling to the last two seems to be perfect,socially better than her 8 year old brother.My son with Adhd was diagnosed at 7 from a neuropsychologist who cost my parents the price of a small car. He was only able to recieve and IEP under the schools ED, emotionally disturbed label. Only 1% off of their score to be labeled dyslexic.He does see a counselor once a week, and a psychiatrist 2 a month through county health. He has been on numerous drugs, currently he is on 36mg of concerta, 1 mg risperdal, 15mg of mirtazapine. He is in the LD class for his ED. He believes that movies are real, and asks all the time if the person in it really went through what is happening in the movie, I've tried so many times to explain it to him in so many different way's. He still asks, did he really get hurt, no it's just a movie hon, I know it is but did he really get hurt, no hon he is just an actor. But did he get hurt. No he is just pretending like you do when you get dressed up. Then he will get mad, call me a liar, or have a small temper tantrum over not telling him the truth. He misunderstands things such as a date or time, and when we(family and teacher) try to explain that he may have heard it wrong or that we may have said it wrong and it was a mistake, he insists that we are lying and that he is right. He has a love hate relationship with his little sister, he used to beat up on his big sister until she was able to do it back now he say's and thinks she is going to kill him. He wants me to get rid of his lil sister, he is violent with her and never alone. Then they can be best friends.He has lost all of his friends in the neighborhood,either because he wont play by their rules or they call him names or make fun of him. Kids his age and younger. He loves violence, he talks about it, and would obsess over guns.water guns, nerf guns, almost scarry more than the normal cowboys and indians american boy.Everyone thinks that I dont discipline him enough not my parents though. I can take away his toys, hold him in the house for a year, it doesn't matter it doesn't work.I've tried positive rewards, letting him pick the rewards,etc. it doesn't work He used to get beat by his father and watch his father beat on his sister when I wasn't around.The teacher blames everything on ADHD or his meds.The dr's don't want to speculate about the diagnosis, but throw meds at him. He will urinate in his clothes for fun and because he is busy,not wet bed, in toys on floor. What is wrong with him. He needs help and Im out of ideas.Isnt violent with other kids,talks violet,he gets feelings hurt by them. Very gentle with our guinea pigs & hamster.