My three year old daugher says she "hates" birthdays. At any given party, when it comes time for the candles to be blown out and Happy Birthday to be sung, she runs away and often cries. On her birthday this year, we minimized the fuss and took her out for a family dinner. Just us. Everything went very well. When we returned home, my husband brought out a scoop of ice cream with a candle in it. She burst into tears and ran into her room. She was unconsolable for half an hour until she fell asleep. The only information I can get from her is that she hates birthdays. Any suggestions?