My daughter is 7 years old. She has a great personality, never meets a stranger. Sometimes I think she is too outgoing. My daughter is in the first grade and we thought she was doing great, until one night her teacher called me at home telling me how horrible she was acting. She would try to tell the teacher what to do, she was domineering over the other children and they didn't like her and she was always talking when she shouldn't. Of course this phone call came as a complete surprise because when we would ask our daughter how her day went, she would always say she had a good day. During the phone conversation with her teacher, she mentioned about a note she sent home that I never got. When I asked my daughter, she told me she throw it away before I could see it. We had a conference set up with her teacher. She said our daughter was top in her class as far as academic went, making 100's on math, spelling and most all of her reading test, but that her social skills were horrible. She commented that my daughter appear to have low self esteem and would cry when something didn't go her away. Since the conference with the teacher, we have notice these behaviors at home. She has no respect for authority and we have to tell her something 2 or 3 times before she will do it. She has been checked for ADD/ADHD and that was negative, but the doctor did say by indication of the test she definately had a behavioral problem. We are trying to control this problem. When she has a bad day at school, she has her tv and radio taken away. When she doesn't do what she asked 1st time, she gets spanked. This doesn't seemed to be helping any. With this said, my daughter has a horrible eating habit. If would make her try something new, she ALWAYS THROWS UP and throws a fit at the table. We've made her go to bed several times without supper because she would not eat what I fix. The only things she will eat is pizza, hot pockets, hot dog, corndog, bacon, cereal and bologna. I work for a nutritional company and they tell me her behavior is being caused by what she is eating, could this be true and if so what do I do?