My ex-husband and I divorced almost 5 years ago, when our son was 2. Since that time, my son seems to feel responsible for his dad's happiness. My ex-husband, engaged twice since, but never married has decided to focus on our son. This means not dating or doing anything to interfere with our son's time with him. Also, he purchases costly items almost weekly for our son, such as a video system or 3-4 games. In addition, my son thinks no adult should ever raise their voice and if they do, they are a bad person. After almost 5 years, I have re-married and have a 7 month old son as well. Other than "deprogramming" after being with his dad, my son seems happy (life and expectation are viewed very differently between homes). Howeevr, I am concerned. My son wets the bed 1-2 times per night while at my house. However, when with his father, he sleeps with him (always). They go to bed together!! I do not think this is appropriate for my son, can you please shre a medical point of view and some suggestions. I have tried talking to both of them.