Yes they sure can! It's just that all of these psychiatrists talk scare me sometimes and they want you to get kids help for every little thing or they might become criminals as they're older. I just hate that they scare people so much
Just a lot of time working with kids, and, of course, this forum. You can check out my profile by clicking on my name. Thanks for the kind words.
You've received great answers.
The only thing I would add is that you have to address any bad behavior (ie stealing) immediately after it happens (or after you discover it). She's old enough to know that stealing is 100% NOT okay, so she needs to face consequences for that. Some teens will steal for the thrill, to see what they can get away with, it's not always because they need the money (or the item they have taken).
Good luck with your daughter, she sounds about as "normal" as they come...and I use that term loosely, lol. I have a 16 year old daughter, and there's not much NORMAL about her. In a teen context, she's as normal as the day is long though.
Teenagers certainly can give us gray hair huh? Take care.
You've been a great help. She is usually so sweet with it, she's the one who reminds me to go out and get it food and stuff. I wish I didn't ask the psychiatrists, all of their answers are always negative. Thank you for being positive and helpful! Do you have a background in psychology?
Not animal cruelty, but an ignorance of what a startle reaction could do to a caged animal (hopefully). Ask her what the bird does when she hits the cage. and if she thinks the bird might hurt itself. For that matter, if she had a daughter, would she hit the child if she messed in her pants? Give her another way to express her madness and explain that what she wants is a change in behavior. Birds can be trained.
Wow thank you! This really helped. I emailed a psychiatrist and of course they said they can't give any info over the phone or email and that she would need to come in. They scared me thought because they said my concerns were valid and that I should bring her in. She is a good kid other than what I mentioned. Do you think what she did is considered animal cruelty?