I have a wonderful 4 year old son who is scarily intelligent, he loves doing maths and spelling at home and has been really advanced from an early age with regards to learning.However since starting nursery last september he has struggled with taking turns, he shouts alot,I think from excitement as well as frustration as he is very enthusiastic, he also is very particulat about certain things ie always sitting on the blue chair and when he cant loses it.He has never showed any signs of agression towards anyone but is alienating himself as the other children dont like it when he shouts at them if they disturb him when creating something, he also says things like "dont look at me" when upset.He has never been a large eater and is also not sleeping well, waking in the night with bad dreams and taking a while to settle even though he is tired and has been up since 6.30am, he refuses to sleep during the day.Today when my mum picked him up from nursery he was crying again and saying he didnt like nursery.I dont know what to do, the nursery say that this is common with intelligent boys whose emotional level is not at the same level but he seems so unhappy and it is affecting all of us every day.Any suggestions would be great, have never done this before!