I am the mother of a 7yr old boy, and a 11month old girl, Now ive always had problems with my son with not listning and being distructive, and mouthy, He is always getting into trouble for these issues, now that he is 7 he is very disresctful, and nothing is good enough, I send him to his room, and he laughs at me, and goes up for 1 minute then comes down, and when i tell him to go back up he wont go, I have a heartcondition so it takes a toll on me when im having to get upset cause he wont listin, Ive taken parenting classes to learn how to be consistant, but I didnt learn much, ive used everything they had mentioned, Ive asked my doctor for him to be tested for ADD/HD, but she doesnt seem to think he has that, I cant even take him in her office cause he doent listin, and he is bouncing of the doctors bed, and playing with the equipment, and I ask him to sit down and he wont listin, so Like should i be asking for another doctor, like she see's that im stressed out and my son wont listin, and she tells me to be consistant, and I have tried my best with everything, now in this past week, he was playing outside, and pulled a little girls pants down, and sprayed a growling cat down with a hose, after we had just came back from a family trip, like Im lost here, I dont know if Ive lost as a mother, or if im just not getting the help i need, letters get sent home saying he doesnt listin, like im lost here, any advice PLEASE..