How can I get my kids to listen and respect me and others? I have three children and they are out of control. My daughter is 14, she does nothing I ask, she steals,lies, and very defiant. My son who is 7 does nothing I ask, he laughs at me when asked to do something or help with something, and also laughs when I disipline him. Last my 5 year old daughter is very demanding, her way or no way. I cant take anymore of my kids driving me to be depressed and stressed. I just burst into tears everyday for how they act no respect, destroy my house, breaking doors, windows, and dont listen. I've done parenting class, counseling, with them and they think its all a joke. Please Help, does anyone have anything else I can try or do, I've takin things away, grounded them everything and its not working.