To me, it sounds like your adoptive mother has other things that are bothering her and she is inappropriately taking it out on you. This is what I recommend - When you go to school tomorrow, ask to speak to the school counselor about this issue. The counselor would be in a better position determining what is going on. The counselor may want to speak with your mother. Regardless, these behaviors should be addressed. It is good that you brought this issue up for discussion in this forum.
Thank you for answering. I have tired to talk to the consoler but she she tells my mom no matter what I tell her and my mom gets mad and says I am an idot and I should be nicer to her. She says that my cousin who is also abused has it worse than me so I have no room to complain and then says that she should send me back to the orphanage in Russia and I ws not worth it
Yes I have told him and he told my mom and she got really mad and just started insulting me the problem is her anger varys in serverity sometimes its minor and other times it is reall bad. I tense up when she is around and I feel like I cant be myself around her.
It sounds like your mom may have a medical condition that makes her have unpredictable mood swings and anger.
I'm sorry you're in this position - but can you talk to your dad about getting an appointment for her with a doctor to try to get her some help?
I am so sorry to hear sweet heart that is terrible. I truly hope that you are not taking it personally, that she is taking it out on you.
Thanks for the advice I tried but my dad got mad at the fact that I said she might have something wrong. I mean I am getting depressed it is just so stressfull I cant talk ot anyone about stress if I try my mom she yells at me if I try my dad he says he is too busy with work I don't know what to do.
hey sweetie, I just read your post and wanted to know how thing were going. I hope a lot better.