After reading about odd, I am thinking maybe my child might have it. he is 7 yrs old and is totally defiant to me and my husband. He constantly gets letters home from school about how he doesn't listen or follow directions but he does wonderful with his school work. I almost wonder if he is getting bored in school! I am not so sure he has it though because he doesn't act out to everyone, just me and my husband. He is great to grandmas and grandpas and to other people who are with him. But when we are involved it is like the monster comes out in him. It seems to be worse towards me than my husband though. We used to have a great relationship but then I started a full time job and he was always in daycare. After that I found out we were pregnant and I ended up out of town for a month with my baby cuz he was born premature. I know that was very hard for him to have me separated like that. I feel that since then, everything has changed. I am sure it has to do with jealousy over his new brother but I just am looking for some guidance because he is making things really difficult and it is driving me crazy. we have done everything from time outs to grounding, taking away priviledges, rewarding for good behavior. God, we have tried it all. My anger from all this is getting out of control and I need to understand what to do for him. I have made an appt with a therapist for myself and I am hoping she may have some more tips for me on how to handle this. My doc says it is a defiancy only towards me and I should send him to counseling which i think is insane for a 7 yr old.
So basically my question is if it is this disorder, wouldn't it happen to all adult figures, not just us???
Please help!!
Lindsey B.