my 3 yr old son was caught kissing a boy too with his tongue i dont know what to do either i just talked to him and he said ok i want candy i dont think he understands
thank you. it's always nice to have re assurance from other people.
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you handled it fine- we have boys hug at preschool after they get in little scuffles, kisses are just ways of showing affection like a hug to a 3 year old. Now you have placed in his mind what society "USUALLY" considers more conventional- very wise
Don't have another thought about sexual orientation
Thank you so much for you feed back. I actually now feel guilty for saying anything but I haven't mantioned it again so will see what happens and if it does will just tell the nursery he is 3 and it's normal behaviour and ask the question if they would have mentioned it if he had kissed a girl.
thanks again
He is 3. He doesnt yet know the difference. You handled it fine. Maybe just say we can't do that at daycare or school. I wouldnt care if the daycare disapproved of it if your child kissed a little girl what would the reaction be. They would probally think it was cute.