Over the past 3 weeks, my son has pulled his pants down in daycare on 4 separate occasions. (Sometimes his underwear too.)
He has always been well behaved, so I was very shocked to learn of this. He is also not staying in time-out at daycare if the provider walks away.
What scares me the most, is that I keep punishing him, yet he continues this behavior.
The first time it happened, he was dared to by another child. The next 2 times, it appeared that he wanted the attention and it made all of the other kids laugh so he laughed too. The 4th time, his underwear was slightly showing above the waistline of his pants; another child said "I see your underwear!" My son turned around and "mooned" him.
I've heard this is normal at this age, but the daycare has never had this problem with any child before. They want to work with him, because he is so sweet.
My mother is very worried that he may be sexually abused. I personally don't believe that is the case, but I don't want to be that ignorant mother that thinks everything is "okay". However, he is not showing any other signs of being abused that I am aware of. He's very outgoing, willing to go (and stay) anywhere, never has unexplained bruising or scrapes, and doesn't touch himself or others inappropriately.
Is this normal behavior? Is it possible he is being abused? If so, how do I find out? If not, what should I do to correct this behavior?
Thank you!