Hi all this is a GREAT website!
I have a 5 1/2 year old son who is adopted. Yes, he comes from a traumatic background but has adjusted well and we also adopted his two other older siblings. He has no health problems and is INCREDIBLY smart! He is in Kindergarten and is a fantastic student! He started pooping in his underwear 1 1/2 years ago. In the last 1 1/2 we have tried everything, basic skills training, day treatment, therapy, counceling, play therapy, spankings, time outs, loss of privileges (sp), cleaning out soiled pants by hand, back in diapers, drs appts, losing toys, positive reinforcement, charts, timed toilet breaks and even being on Santa's naughty list!
UGH!!!!!
I am at a total loss. It is as if he has encoporesis (sp) but he isnt constipated at all. He is also not ashamed or embarassed of it either. He is back in diapers now 100% of the time because I am tired of the gross underwear, poo in the sink and shower and having to bleach everything. His siblings no longer want to play with him and his brother who shares a room with him wont anymore so we had to put him in the guest room with no toys and told him when he stopped the pooping in his pants he could have him room back with his brother. Sadly he doesnt seem to mind any of it at all! He just keeps on pooping, smelling and getting consequences. He is totally regular and has a very good diet high in fiber and takes fiber supplements as well. The interesting thing is he only does this at home not at school. He was warned if it continued this last Christmas Santa wouldn't bring him a toy. He pooped 2x on Christmas eve and Santa brought him nothing. He cried but a bit and then went on about his buisness and still pooped in his pants. I am at a loss with a therapist who is stumped, councelors who are trying all kinds of things and siblings who think he is disgusting and stupid because he just wont stop. Any thoughts or suggestions??????????