First off... I have been posting on this site since my soon entered elementary school. I feel like nothing has changed.
here is the link to the previous post
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Child-Behavior/What-do-I-do-with-my-5year-old/show/1066427#post_6161126
My son has seen 3 psychiatrist, a neuro phyce, a school phyce, school social workers, consolers, mentors, and been going to a therapist since he was 4. He is angry, sneaky, rude, dishonest, but very smart and charming,
He has had a preliminary diagnosis including all of the following ODD, OCD, ADHD, Bi-Polar, Sensitivity Disorder, depression and anxiety. All being summed up under ADD and A mood Disorder. The school diagnosed him with "Aspergers Likely"??? Still trying to figure that out.
He is burning everyone out. His mother and I have divorced not say he was the cause but the stress in our household did not help.
I have custody and I am trying to establish a normal life for us. I kinda wrote off last year after the divorce and this year I prepared him for school encouraged him got him physced for it.
I had a tutor to help him after school. Gave him everything he needed to start off well.
But now it's clear after a teacher meeting today nothing has changed and ADD medicine is not helping other than seemingly making him very agitated with everything and every one.
He has burned out everyone around him that have been trying so hard to help him.
Everyone wants to help because he so smart and charming but then he can be so rude. He has just about chased off my girlfriend. I am not sure if our relationship will last directly because of him.
She can't stand the rudeness and the lying and his oddest behaviors.
He goes out of his way to disobey, covers it up by trying to lie .. poorly not idea that his lies are so poor there is not even a reason to do it. He lies ever when he was not going to get into trouble. He hides his home work hates doing work period. He's driving his teachers batty because he's so smart and he is wasting the classes and the teachers time
the teachers all say he just does not care. No consequence means enough for him to alter his behavior.
he is always a lizard brain or dog after a bone.... he has to have what he wants and he has flat out said stuff like ... I am going to keep asking until you do what I want.... he has no concept of how pissed off he makes people.
he is being isolated by his behavior not really making good friends in school schoolmates thinks he "special" and needs help. Teachers load his back pack and he takes items out. Throws teacher communication and behavior reports away so I wont see them.
erases homework from his agenda so we wont see it. blames everyone else but himself.
If you read the link above from the previous thread you will see nothing has changed he has just gotten more bold more rude. Loves being shocking by cursing.
we have tried concerta, stratera, focalin, prozac, anti-phycotics, anti-seizer drugs and a host of other things. I want to say that I think he was vyvanse too but I am not sure
Where should I go now what should I try. I am about to lose my support group and my girlfriend over this behavior because people are exhausted. I am the only one left to look out for him with the energy and desire to love him and help him.