I have two boys 4 & 5 years old, almost ADHD : hyper active, impulsive, agressive, always fighting together and with others, hitting, pushing, yelling, ... etc
I have problem when i take them to any place, specially the young one, when i took him to a club he push a child on the swimming pool, when we go in a vacation in some resort he push another child in the swimming pool in the cold winter ! he put me in a bad situation with others parents ! today i come back from a farm with my family, there was a old swiming pool , empty and there is scrab on it, he push my sister in-law's daughter on it ! she hurt little because of the scrab things !
i feel embarissing a lot ! not only these pushing times
they always used to hit children in any playground, or garden, or at school
the 5 years son, his school asked me to not register him next year ! because of his hyper activity and no control for his self, and he is academically very good !
i will try to put him in Special Need school for his behaviour ! in a small class with 5-8 students and 3 teachers who know how to treat with these kids.
but this will solve the school problem, what about the life out of school, i cant take them any where !
i want to say that we have rules at homes, punshed them if there is something wrong, like time out or taking some of their lovely toys for 1 or 2 days depend on the problem.
we didnt give them candy, chocolates, any sugars during the week, always in the weekend and limited
tell me what to do !
iam 29 yrs and i feel that iam like 60 with them ! cant handle any more
every time me and my husband fighting because of them *but sure not infront of them* but we can not enjoy our life together .. always dont do that .. do that .. why u make this mistake .. .bla bla bla