His 8 year old hangs on top of both of us, complains constantly for hours on end, straddles her dad, pulls his hair, shoves her fingers in his face and if he asks her to stop she will loudly say "WHHHYYYY?". We were watching football and she literally kicked our friend off of the couch and was shoving her feet in his face preventing him from sitting down, when I told her to stop she told me "You're not my mom I don't have to listen to you". I am 4 and a half months pregnant and she climbs on top of me like a jungle gym, my boyfriend told me all kids are like this so how do I plan to be a mother? If she doesn't get exactly what she wants she tells her grandmother and says that her dad is starving her or boring her. I don't know what to do, I am so stressed out with her around, and I am worried that my child will be like this too.