NASTY NOTE

[CJCHRISTEL]

I recently found a note that my 9 year old stepson wrote to his "girlfriend" who "dumped" him recently.  He talked about putting his P**** in her V - and they would have a baby together.  If she didn't do what he wanted he would rape her and much sure she loved him.  (that is just a part of it).  

He is on 3 different meds for ADHD risperidone, vyvanse and cholidin (sp?).  He also found a picture on his dad's phone that really upset him (breast).  What would you suggest we do?

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

Tell him you saw the note and are concerned/worried about the things he said to this girl. Let him know that you are informing his providers because this is something he needs to talk with them about. As discipline, remove some favored privilege (e.g., TV, video games, computer) for several days. And be sure to have him write a letter of apology to the girl.

[CJCHRISTEL]

We've haven't approached him with this letter yet.  Is there anything we should say - I feel that he needs to have some kind of punishment.

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

Since your son is prescribed these psychiatric medications, I'm assuming he is already in treatment. Be sure to convey the information to his mental health providers.