My grandson is 2 1/2 yrs old, my daughter is seperated from her husband and he is not allowed to see the child. He has increasingly become more defiant. he seems to be more hateful towards her,why? We have spanked and spanked. it does not seem to matter to him. Can a child of this age have no remorse or sensitivity about punishment. He runs off when we go places and she litterally has to drag him around. whenever we go places it is inevitable there will be a scene. Yesterday he took off running from her and stopped right as he reached the street where there is always alot of traffic. She said she felt as though she was going to have a heart attack, yelling for him to stop. When she finally reached him he was laughing. She corrected him put him in the car and because he was corrected he threw his cup at the windshield and juice went all over her and the car. He has thrown this kind of fit in the daycare as well. Only after she arrived. When they got home she scolded him and he began spitting at her, hitting her, and trying to scratch her. Some days he wakes up with this defiant attitude. Ex: mother: Its good morning time....Child: No! or begans kicking her. She has another child age 4, and has never faced any kind of problems such as this with him. we don't know what to do anymore, we are at a loss. Is it possible that he has some sort of chemical inbalance, no 2 yr old can possibly be this awful.
Thanks
Concerned Grandmother