Our daughter is 31 months old. She has never been a great sleeper, but a couple months ago she got obsessed with leaving the light on, and her bed time shifted from 8 to about 9:30. We have weened her off naps, but she still struggles to stay awake as long as possible. Now she even makes excuses- that she is hungry, thirsty, "neeeeeds to watch Dora", wants to play, make mommy a cake.... Anything to stay awake. We don't generally grant these wishes, but occassionally let her fall sleep in our bed.
About 2 weeks ago she had her Adenoids out, and since then she has been a TERROR at night. She is an absolute angel during the day. But at NIGHT it all begins. BRIGHT lights on, she will scream, bite, pull her own hair, scratch at her eyes, throw things, bang her head on the ground or wall. We are nervous she will hurt herself. We've tried leaving her alone, tried restraining her gently, tried singing, calming-- but once she starts- it's 1-2 hour (until we cave, or she tires enough to negotiate).
We also took away the pacifier after her operation. She was only using it to sleep. She asks for it 1 of 3 tantrums. Tantrum occur from 8:30-10PM, and 3-5AM (yes, 1-2 hours, usually 1.5 hours on the button.)
Yes, our life is hell, but more importantly, we are nervous that something is seriously wrong with her?! Now we are at the limit and either we will be mean- letting her cry and hurt herself in her room for 2 hours + (yes, she can have these tantrums that long) or give into her requests for milk, food, play, etc. (If we have to be awake, at least we'd like it to not hurt...) Can you help?