Step Son has been peeing in anything he has available in his room. Soda can, old McDonald cups. Water bottles , milk jugs. Then he keeps them in his room. Never throwing any of them in his room,away.I've gone in there before,just to get rid of the open containers of uriane. The smell gets over welding.
The times I've done that, he has gotten violent with me. Saying to stay the F- out of his room. I have no right going in there. I have not said nothing to him about him doing this. I've asked my wife what she thinks we should do. Her answer is loving it out of him. Keep still. This has gone on for a year. Nothing has changed.
Not sure what to do here? If I say something to him,I'm in trouble. I say something to my wife, I am in trouble again.
I think he needs some kind of help.
He came to us over 11 years ago. We were to take care of he and his brother until their mother got out of prison. She never came back to give them. We adopted both he and his brother. Both of them have other issues. To many to list.
My wife lives under the blanket,that this will pass. We keep our mouth shut. I'm not loving them enough.
I do love them
This is way beyond love.
Any suggestions? Other then me leaving this home. That's is what most people tell me to do.