My brother, who is 4, is the most abusive little thing in this world. He has no discipline and does anything and everything he wants in this house. My family's Chinese, and apparently, Chinese men like sons over daughters. My dad lets him do everything he wants to do, and refuses to let anyone teach him manners. Now my brother's a spoiled brat. He punches&kicks everyone, blows raspberries at everyone, and throws things everywhere. You know how you're supposed to respect your elders? My brother kicks my grandparents all the time.
To me? It's the same thing. He pinches me, pulls my hair out (I have very long hair), and rips up my homework. Of course I get angry, but my dad yells at me whenever I yell at him. My brother's really abusive, but I can't do anything to stop his abuses because my dad protects after my brother hits me. No one is allowed to yell at him in my household, not even my mom. Is this ridiculous or what?
Today, he ran downstairs and pinched my arm really hard, his nails are really sharp and it literally broke my skin and it was swollen and everything. I was screaming because it was really painful, but he would not let go. I got frustrated and pinched him back. But my dad stormed down and roared at me. He said that what I did was child abuse and I could go to jail for it, but I was like what the heck, what he did wasn't abuse? He then struck me really hard on my head and told me that if I pinch him again I would be kicked out of my house. I was like, "how was that not child abuse?" My dad was like, "you're 18 now so it's not child abuse anymore"
What the heck is wrong with him? Help me!!! I hate my life.
I'm so glad to be out of here next year, but I don't want my brother to continue like this anymore. I see no future for him.