My 13 yr old stepdaughter is giving her mom a hard time ( grades need improving, homework not done...mostly all school related). This is an ongoing issue for years, just getting no better.
The mom has always been strict, and as my stedaughter is getting older, methods she used in the past are not working to get her to "conform". (There are major control issues in the household).
There's been visitation issues with my husband and more and more ofter, my husband's ex is using visitation as a tool to punish or create a consequence for my stepdaughter.
We all on the outside see this as inappropriate and really just adding fuel to the fire since my stepdaughter lives out of state and visitation is limited anyway.
Do you think it is an appropriate form of punishment to take away a visit with a parent.
This is upsetting to all of us involved and we are trying to remain calm and not get the couts involved,,
Wha'ts you opinion?
We need some sound advise and direction