My son, who turns four at the end of November, began peeing getting out of bed in the middle of the night and peeing on his bedroom floor. For about a two week period he also began defecating on an article of clothing, which he would then throw in his closet. He has been toilet trained since his third birthday. His excuse is that there is a spider in the bathroom, and he's scared of it. One day there was small spider in the bathroom, but we got rid of it. We've had to remove everything from his room, and rip out his carpeting. I thought we had cured him of this after we removed his carpeting, but he's started doing it again. I'm at a total loss at what to do.... we've tried reasoning, grounding, spanking... I just can't spank him anymore. Please help, I'm really losing it... thank you.
DBO