I have a 10 yr old boy and for many yrs has been afraid of the dark and afraid to be alone most of the time he would not go upstairs to his room to play at anytime of day..Now he goes during the day, but not at night. He also crys at bedtime and wants me to sleep with him until he falls a sleep..i try to explain to him that i'm in the next room with the door open and nothing can hurt him...We got him a dog that is his best friend to help convince him that he is well protected...but that still does not work even though our 80 lbs dog, who is very protected of our home sleeps with him everynight. He also won't sleep go to any sleepovers. Also my other problem is that for some reason he is afraid of something horrible happening to me...If i go out for dinner with friends for a couple of hrs he constantly asks why he can go and for me to stay home. Or for my honeymoon recently to cuba, he had bad anxiety about me leaving for a wk or on when i leave to go to the store or anywhere and if he is just going to the back yard to play with his dog he constantly says he loves me about 5 times in minutes Is all this normal??? My friend suggested that i get professional help for him and said this infront of him and sometimes when i put him to bed he crys and says i should get him some help cause he can't help himself. I have never said any thing to him about the i love you's, Please help me . Thanks