it is frustrating and it takes FOREVER to get anything done. there are only so many personnel to cover all the kids having "issues".
I am beyond frustrated!!!!!!
First of all....my son definitely does not have an IEP...just the BIP...nothing more.
Second...I took cupcakes to my son's school yesterday (it was a surprise to make my son feel special)...I am talking with his teacher...asking how my son is doing...she tells me he is doing fine in the classroom and she is working with him on transitions. I ask how things are going meeting with the counselor and psychologist...she says what do you mean...I explained I was told they would each be meeting with him once a week...she said noone has met with him at all...what??? I am far too pregnant and hormonal...I almost lost it...not with the teacher...but just with the situation...I asked her what am I suppose to do...I know my son needs better resources then what he is receiving...she said your right...but with a bad economy and budget cutbacks...there are no resources available. UGH AHHHHH GRRRRR!!! Are you kidding? No wonder the principle kept pushing for my son to be in special ed...that was her easy quick fix.
I was so mad yesterday...thought I would go into labor...then I just got sad...for my son. My fiance is fed up...he really wants to put my son in Montessori or Private school...I fear the monthly cost of these schools...but he said he doesnt care anymore...we have to do what is best for my son.
Please any other suggestions? Should we look into Montessori or Private schools? Do you think this would benefit my son?
Most of the reading I have done, lists the BIP as a part of an IEP. But, it doesn't sound like that here. You really need to know his status for followup. I would ask the principal or counselor for clarification. Just say that you like his BIP (it is a good starting point and well written), but you are wondering if that means he qualifies for special ed (is it a IEP) or is it like a 504? And if it is not either one - then why not?
If you ever decided to change schools, this could be very important. IEP's and 504's, by law, follow you. A plan (no matter how good it is) that is simply put into effect by a school, can be easily ignored by another school.
Sandman you are so awesome...I cant tell you how much I appreciate the help!
"All he has is a BIP (behavioral intervention plan)...that is it."
I wasn't exactly sure how a BIP fits into all of this so I started researching - Lots of really good stuff out there. I do know that a PIP is done by the IEP team (I think). I don't think it counts as an IEP or a 504, but it is very legally binding. In short, I have still got a lot of reading to do. Think I will talk to one of my special ed friends.
Anyway, here are several excellent resources on BIP's. I would highly recommend you start going through them. Most also have excellent ideas for helping kids.
http://cecp.air.org/fba/default.asp
http://specialchildren.about.com/od/specialeducation/qt/behaviorplan.htm
http://www.ldonline.org/article/6180
While being in the classroom might make it to where your son will not be his "normal self" and act out when you're there, I cannot imagine a school's ability to deny you the option of observing him. I think that is a problem.