Is there a way he won't have to be sent to daycare all day and then be picked up by a parent at the end of his day?
As a country, we are ignoring the fact that many of our children are being ruined by daycare. This generation and last generation of children have unprecedented use of antipsychotics and antidepressants and ADHD medications.
Preschoolers are being put on drugs at an alarming rate.
Is there any way that you, Grandma, or his actual parents can parent him instead of an employee?