ok heres my problem, my son is 6 yrs old and has constipation problems and is on miralax n occasionaly fletchers, i have given him enemas few times over the years as recommended by gastro dr. he still poopes on himself especially when backed up,but dont really matter if he is or isnt, he also holds it alllll the time which is 1 reason why he gets backed up. he pees too on himself a little as well. i tried everything from punishing him by making him wash his underwears,taking toys n games away,time outs,yelling, not yelling, rewarding when he did do good ,everything you can imagine. so tell me why is he so lazy,??? when i punish him it dont bother him. i dont want him to be a 10yr. and still pooping n the way he is going seems like he is.in school he had 1 accident n thats it. he will clearly tell me he dont want to go and thats why he has accident. so how do i get him to gooooooooo and stop being lazy.???? please help. i need real help.