I have 3 boys ages 6,3, and 8 months. my 3 year old I don't kno what to do with him any more. he only wants to eat junk food and drink, when it come to eating dinner and lunch he doesn't eat all he wants to do I drink. ive put him him in time out it doesn't work ive made him go to bed without eating it doesn't work spankings don't work as well im giving up hope.ive had to hide all the snack food and he will get a way to get it and I take it form him n put hin in time out its a contant battle im about to pad lock the firidge and freezer I had had to throw everything out several times this week due to him going in the fridge late at night when we are sleeping to waking up with the fridge wide open and the freezer as well. he is 3 I don't know what to do about this anymore ive lost a lot of money due to this issue had to throw meats away he will turn the frige n freezer off and he doesn't listen to anything I tell him. I thought this was a stage but it has been going on for over a year now im losing my mind, and my other son is getiing snack time taking away due to this as well because he will go after my 6 year old and snatch the snack away or he will go up and grab anyones drink with out even asking he trys n helps himself to everything when he has been in time out spankings and no toys nothing seems to work someone please help me, he wont sit down for anything the doctors wont test him for anything til he is in school and he also plays with himself everyday and the doctor says its normal but its not normall when he Is contantly doing it and the nosies he makes along with it grosses me out, I have a talk with him telling him he is only allowed to do it in the bath room and he will go int herer for a very long time and I have got on to him about it as well told him that Is a bad thing to be doing please help im going crazy